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Choosing Your Married Name
Today’s couples have more options than ever when deciding on their married names. While traditionally women took their husband’s surname, modern couples are creating new traditions with blended names, hyphenation, or keeping their original names. The most important factor is choosing what feels right for your relationship.
Hyphenated Last Names
Combining both surnames with a hyphen is a popular choice that honors both families equally. Considerations:
- Works best with shorter names (Smith-Jones better than Schwarzenegger-Constantinople)
- Think about flow – which name sounds better first?
- Consider future children’s names – will they get both names?
- Some legal forms may truncate long hyphenated names
Example combinations: Martinez-Williams, Chen-Gupta, O’Brien-Kim
Blended Surnames
Creating a new name by combining parts of both surnames is a creative option growing in popularity:
- Portmanteau names blend syllables (Anderson + Lopez = Andopez)
- You can take first half of one name and second half of another
- Works especially well with names that share sounds
- Ensure the new name doesn’t create unintended meanings
Examples: Clark + Bennett = Clennett, Rivera + Taylor = Rivlor
Combined Initials
Using initials from both names creates a short, distinctive new surname:
- Take first letters (Parker + Ortiz = PO)
- Combine first letters with syllables (Garcia + Lee = Garlee)
- Works well when names are very different
- Can honor both families while creating something new
Examples: Morgan + Khan = Mokha, Davis + Wong = Dawon
Completely New Names
Some couples choose an entirely new surname to represent their new family:
- Select a meaningful word (Love, Journey, Stone)
- Choose a name from your cultural heritage
- Pick a name with special significance to your relationship
- Consider names that reflect your values or interests
Examples: Evergreen, Valentine, Phoenix
Keeping Separate Names
Many modern couples choose to keep their original surnames:
- Maintains professional identities
- Simplifies paperwork and legal documents
- Children can have hyphenated names or one parent’s name
- Be clear about how you’ll handle social situations
Some alternatives: using one name socially while keeping original names legally, or one partner changing their middle name to their spouse’s last name.
Legal Considerations
Name changes after marriage involve several legal steps:
- Marriage certificate serves as primary documentation
- Update Social Security card (U.S.) first
- Then driver’s license/state ID
- Notify banks, employers, insurance companies
- Update passport, voter registration, professional licenses
Note: Name change laws vary by country and sometimes by state/province. Non-traditional name combinations may require court approval in some jurisdictions.
Wedding Name FAQs
Recent surveys show these trends in married name choices:
- 70% of women still take their spouse’s last name (down from 90% in 1990s)
- 20% keep their maiden name (up from 5% in 1990s)
- 5% hyphenate their names
- 3% create new blended names
- 2% of men take their wife’s last name
Same-sex couples are more likely to create new name combinations or keep separate names. Younger couples are also more open to non-traditional options.
Consider these factors when deciding between hyphenation and blending:
| Factor | Hyphenation | Blending |
|---|---|---|
| Name Length | Works best with shorter names | Can shorten long names |
| Family Recognition | Clearly maintains both names | May obscure origins |
| Pronunciation | Easier to pronounce | May create new pronunciation |
| Uniqueness | More common | More distinctive |
Try saying both options aloud and imagine introducing yourself with each. Which feels more natural?
When blending surnames, keep these tips in mind:
- Sound: Say the new name aloud – does it flow well?
- Length: Aim for 2-3 syllables for practicality
- Meaning: Research if the new combination means something unintended
- Spelling: Choose intuitive spellings to avoid constant corrections
- Balance: Try combinations from both names first (A+B and B+A)
- Heritage: Consider maintaining cultural connections
Example successful blends: Kim + Rodriguez = Kimriguez, Campbell + Nguyen = Campuyen
Options for children’s last names include:
- Hyphenated: Give both parents’ surnames (may be long)
- One parent’s name: Traditional approach
- Alternating: Different children get different names
- New blended name: Entire family shares created name
- Middle name solution: One parent’s name as middle name
Consider future implications – will names be passed to grandchildren? How will schools/doctors handle long or hyphenated names? Discuss what feels fair to both parents.
The name change process typically involves:
- Marriage certificate: Your primary document proving name change rights
- Social Security: First update (U.S.) with certified marriage certificate
- Driver’s license: Update with your new Social Security card
- Financial accounts: Banks, credit cards, loans
- Employer records: HR/payroll updates
- Insurance policies: Health, auto, home
- Utilities and subscriptions: Often overlooked
- Passport: Can take several weeks
For non-traditional name changes (not taking spouse’s name or hyphenating), some states require additional court paperwork. Start the process within a few months of marriage.
Strategies for announcing your name choice:
- Wedding website: Include an explanation of your decision
- Announcement cards: Send after the wedding with new names
- Social media: Post explaining your choice
- In person: Tell close family personally first
- Email signature: Start using new name professionally
Be prepared for questions, especially from older relatives. Have a polite but firm response ready. Example: “We’ve put a lot of thought into this decision and feel this best represents our new family.”